The latest company to adopt AI into their simple devices is HMD, a juggernaut with the rights to the Nokia name. The way they are doing it is utterly ridiculous, however. They are adding it to their phones front and center, but you only get to use it for 180 days. After that, you have to subscribe to their AI service via smartphone. Yes, you read that right. A dumbphone user purchases this phone, gets a taste of the AI “goodness”, and then if they decide it’s actually valuable for them, they have to go get a smartphone, download an app, and subscribe to it to continue using the AI on the dumbphone. Absolutely bonkers!

The troubling rise of AI into the business space is one thing. Trying to integrate AI into every part of society is the next challenge we will face as digital minimalists. Today, I hope to provide some thoughts into this craze and help you balance the reality of AI with the need for more offline in your life.

Does AI belong anywhere?

Before we go ban AI from the world, I think it’s important to recognize how technologies gain hold of our cultural imagination. First, they are introduced and many early adopters get to try them out. After a certain period, every day people find useful nuggets from the technology and start integrating it to their routines. Finally, the technology becomes dominant, extractive, and used throughout society.

This pattern happened with television, personal computers, the microwave, air conditioning, and many other technologies. In the AI conversation, we are still in level 1, even though companies will make you believe that everyone and their mom uses it. And that’s where I want to make the first point:

AI companies are selling the idea that their tools are essential to modern life, but the truth is simpler: plenty of people live perfectly well and will continue to do so without the constant stream of chatbot‑generated slop.

Moreover, the data reflects that AI companies are losing the cultural and economic battles. They are in spiral trying to build super-intelligence without noticing that more and more people don’t want these products in the first place. Now, let’s be clear. These AI companies will survive, but their value will be defined by what they can realistically replace (automation, rote work, boring tasks), instead of the magical fantasies (curing cancer, world peace, replacing all software workers) they are selling.

This brings us to the proper place for AI in our society. AI belongs in the world if and only if:

• It’s local, meaning that it doesn’t use large amounts of resources or data to run. In other words, you can run it locally on your computer like a program.

• It’s well defined for a single-task as a helper not a generator. Something like transcribing audio or recognizing patterns in a document, instead of “writing an essay” or “composing music” devoid of the human touch.

• It’s trained with permission from authors, musicians, coders, instead of the current extraction that Empire of AI detailed.

• It’s accountable to the people it affects, meaning its decisions can be inspected, challenged, and corrected instead of buried inside opaque corporate systems.

• It’s optional rather than imposed. AI should be something individuals choose to use, not something companies force into everyday tools, workflows, or devices.

Unfortunately, given that these requirements won’t be amenable to OpenAI or Anthropic, I will now move into how you can resist these technologies and move towards a human centered future.

Embrace Skill Building

The reason why AI replaces workers is not because people lack value. It replaces them because AI presents itself as more capable than the average person. For example, when an employer wants a website built, AI looks (key word “looks”) like a complete solution. It promises to code, design, write copy, generate marketing assets, and turn the whole project into something finished.

However, the reality is that projects that use AI without human direction or expertise end up costing way more than expected. Take the example of Ford. During their October 2025 earnings call, they announced that AI would replace humans to help with quality safety checks and supply disruptions. After multiple failures and the erosion of profits due to warranty issues, they are now rehiring humans that have actual expertise on the field. The focus here is the expertise portion. Ford is not rehiring people to do menial tasks; they are looking for people that have skills that AI cannot replicate.

Therefore, our task as digital minimalists is to stay active in our own skill development. While this applies to work (work conferences, professional development, etc.), gaining new traits is most important in the area of leisure. Painting, cooking, woodworking, bread-making, any hands‑on craft should be prioritized as an offline encounter that provides respite from the always connected world. The act of learning expands our experience of being human, and that is something no machine can replace.

Over time, if you focus on building new skills, you will find that AI is no threat to you. The AIs may be able to replicate a version of your work, but they cannot communicate the soul behind it. That is what makes you valuable.

Support Human Even If It Costs You More

This is a touchy topic due to the rising cost of everything this year. However, I want to encourage you to think about where your money is going. Is it supporting corporations that are trying to erase the human experience or going towards the human ecosystem that keeps your community alive? It’s easy under the capitalist system to prioritize your own pocket instead of your neighbors, but you may be leaving more on the table than you can realize.

Last year, I got a first glimpse of what this looks like. I started attending community meetings at the local coffee shop every Friday. It cost me around $15 for a coffee and a small breakfast burrito each week. However, what I have gotten in return has been much more valuable than the roughly $780 I spent at the local spot. It got me friendships, connections to the local issues, and some freelance jobs that I would have never imagined. It allowed me to experience offline more often by getting to know the local walking club and some community organized bike rides. If anything, it got me out of the house and off my computer as a reminder that not everything needs to be productive all the time.

I believe this principle goes beyond the usual “buy local” advice. Supporting the human ecosystem can guide the choices you make when working on a new project, signing up for a new online service, or comparing quotes for a kitchen renovation. In all scenarios, we must choose to prioritize the human default instead of the machines that are trying to replace us. In the end, you may gain a connection that you didn’t know was possible and a lasting relationship that will make your life all the better for it.

Turn Off The AI Pipeline

My final piece of advice for those of us that care about the future of humanity is to turn off AI features or look for alternatives when possible. I know that this may not be feasible if your work decides which platforms to use for your job, but you still have a choice.

For example, you can use a different search engine that doesn’t do AI summaries. Or maybe switch to an email provider that is not training their GPT model on your company secrets or suggesting replies that don’t really make sense. Maybe when a company announces that AI is coming, you find a competitor that does not. The reason behind this is simple: AI needs data to function. When we don’t feed it, it dies.

Another way to turn off the vast amounts of information is to spend more time offline. Go on a walk, take a break in the mountains, hang out in real life with people. The less you depend on the web infrastructure and the more you focus on the natural world, the more you contribute to the human project and step away from the corporate systems that profit from your attention.

Conclusion

If you care about a human centered future, you have to start with yourself and expand outwards. Start building your knowledge base in your brain instead of relying on the chatbot to do it for you. Invest in the local relationships and forget about the “advice” the machine could give you. Finally, turn off the data you feed them and take some time for yourself. The more we do this, the more obvious it becomes that the cure for our hyper‑connected world is not another shiny product. It is the simple act of living offline, where human life actually happens.

Although these are great winds in favor of humanity, you and I must do our part in restoring attention. To do that successfully, we need tools, information, and motivation. Thus, here are my recommendations for your summer reading list. Don’t put pressure on yourself to read them all, one of them is sufficient in the fight against distraction. I have listed them in order of priority:

1. Body Electric: Fresh off the press, Manoush Zomorodi’s book is a simple and effective reminder that a 5 minute tech break every hour is as powerful as switching to a dumbphone. These interventions help reducing screen-time and restoring physical health, mental acuity, and proper time balance between your devices and yourself.

2. Big Time: Do you have a busy schedule? Can’t really find time for your priorities? This book might help with that. My favorite part about this book was that it encouraged simplicity in time management. Instead of trying to be super efficient, the author proposed the idea of being patient, testing a few things at a time, and trying to make your schedule fit your chaotic life instead of the other way around.

3. The Distracted Mind: This is definitely a more academic read into the topic of distraction, but well worth your time. It describes describes the latest theories and insights on why distraction happens to us, and how we might be able to reclaim more control over our attention. A great resource if you are interested in the science behind your brain.

I hope you pick one of these titles and dive deep into the concepts. May your summer be amazing and restorative to your attention instead of a time sink hole that gives more to big tech.

To illustrate, let’s take an example from the health world. Little Rock, AR tops the rankings of the “Fattest Cities in the U.S.” Some think it’s because Arkansas is the McDonald’s capital of the world with more fast food restaurants per capita than most cities its size. The reality of the problem is more about what they don’t have than what they have plenty of. While fast food is an issue, the main reason why Little Rock and many other cities in North America deal with obesity is the lack of sidewalks. In this city, only 14% of residents have access to a connected sidewalk network. This, in turn, forces people to consider driving as the only practical way to get around. Therefore, sedentary behavior + fast food available everywhere = high chances of being overweight.

When applying this thinking to the digital world, let’s discuss the example of Mindy, who sent me an email with her info a few weeks ago. Mindy is a remote worker in the marketing space and spends about 10 hours total in front of her devices. She wanted to find ways to reduce her digital overload. I asked her to give me a few insights into her daily life and this is a sketch of her every day:

• Mindy wakes up about 7:30 am each day, turns off her phone alarm, and quickly does an email, social media, and messages check-in for about 30 minutes while brushing her teeth and preparing the coffee.

• At around 8, she takes care of physical necessities (bathing, breakfast, and a quick walk with the dog).

• From 9-12, Mindy focuses on work tasks and sits around Zoom meetings, gets another round of coffee, and watches a video or two while working on her marketing pitches. She also replies to messages as they come.

• At around 12, she takes a little break and sits down to decompress, eat some lunch, and watch reels that her friends sent her on WhatsApp. She sometimes takes a walk with the dog, but most days she is replying to text messages and catching up with friends before heading back to her home office.

• Around 1 until 4, Mindy goes back to work, answers more emails, has a few more meetings, and then she closes the laptop for work. From there on, she goes to the gym for about 30 minutes, listens to a podcast or Spotify, walks the dog for a second time, and then takes a shower to initiate her evening routine.

• Evenings are a little more varied for her. She sometimes goes hang out with friends or watches a play at the local theater. Most days, however, she sits down to watch a show and some reels on her phone until it’s time to go to sleep. Around 10-11, she finally goes to sleep and repeats the cycle the next day.

A lot of people would say, “Mindy, go get yourself an app blocker, create a better schedule, and stick to it. Build your willpower and eventually you’ll reduce your screentime.” Again, those are directionally accurate answers. However, most of those people are not dealing with the main issue, Mindy’s environment. Her life is all interconnected. Work, life, friends, and family, they are all mediated through the surface of technology. When that occurs, it is not surprising that screentime is high. Moreover, she has the biggest blessing and curse combo of the 2020’s, remote work.

Remote work, with all its benefits, is causing longer workweeks, creating more irritable people, and reducing physical activity. Am I suggesting that all work from home is evil and should be banned? No. There are excellent resources and data points that a more flexible location and schedule to work benefits most people. Having said that, remote workers like Mindy must watch out and proactively counteract the dangers of the home office. Thus, here is my advice to you and her for the environment question we consider today.

Confine Smart Tech to the Home Office

One salient observation from Mindy’s case is the pervasive presence of devices throughout her daily routine. She wakes up, the phone is there. While eating breakfast or sitting on the couch, smart tech surrounds her. If our goal is to create a conducive environment for mental rest, all smart technology should be confined to a specific room.

Creating a physical boundary for technology usage is not a gimmick, research shows that it improves your mood, sleep, and mental acuity over time. It also serves as an effective measure to mitigate excessive screen time. If your phone, laptop, and other tech is in one area of the home, whenever you are not there, you are likely to not get distracted.

Switch Your Environment Every 2 Days

The next step for remote workers like Mindy is to reset their environments every other day. Cal Newport, author of Digital Minimalism, has an excellent article detailing why. The gist of it is that the “home is filled with the familiar, and the familiar snares our attention, destabilizing the subtle neuronal dance required to think clearly.” Mindy does not only suffer from constant tech activation all throughout her house, but also from the reality that her every day environment is always competing against work.

To avoid this enmeshing of work and home, the easiest thing to do is to take a stroll for the day and work out of a coffee shop, library, or other building that is not her home office. The new stimuli allows her brain to not be dragged down by the dishes, the laundry, or the dirty corner that hasn’t been vacuumed in a while.

Create Space for Silence

My final recommendation for Mindy and all of you reading is to dedicate time during your day for nothingness. Like many people in the modern world, Mindy is overstimulated and carries a large load in her brain. She replies to text messages, works on her tasks, fires responses via emails, and probably has many other things accumulating in her mind. As a result, the modern brain suffers from a lack of space to process and think clearly.

Time alone without any input helps our brains reset and create neural pathways toward solutions and creativity. 15 minute walks around the block, a candle lit in the evening before going to sleep, a bath where all you hear is the water, all small gestures that help your brain experience pause from the barrage of information we subject it to nowadays. I encourage you to do this at least once per day, but if your life is too busy and you cannot make the time for it, prioritize the weekend for silence as a time to breathe again.

Conclusion

It is simple dear reader. Your environment plays a larger factor than you think. When you tidy it up, remove distractions, and create silence, the benefits compound. Don’t fall into the trap of thinking that a shiny new gadget will be the reason you overcome the battle against distraction. They are helpful, but the environment is way more powerful.

Both extremes are toxic. Digital minimalism isn’t reserved for people who buy a Light Phone 3, a Mudita, or a Supernote. And it’s not only for people who live with a flip phone, no email, and no TV. The fight against distraction belongs to all of us and if we are going to win, we have to learn to find balance in our conversations.

For example, last week, Commodore announced a distraction‑free flip phone priced at $500, and the comment section immediately split into two camps. Some were outraged at the cost. Others said it wasn’t “minimalist enough.” Personally, I don’t mind when companies release new hardware (especially now that hardware is expensive to build) as long as they provide real value, charge a one‑time price, and keep improving the product. Light Phone, Mudita, Zerowriter, Ugmonk, and Supernote are great examples of this. Maybe Commodore will join that list, maybe not.

What I do take issue with are companies that sell you an idea, promise to fix your problems, and then lock the solution behind a subscription that doesn’t deliver. Even worse are the companies like Adobe that used to charge once and then quietly switched to a subscription model. I could go on about this forever, and maybe I will, but today I want to remind you of something simple: Digital minimalism shouldn’t cost you a dime. Digital minimalism is a mindset first, devices are secondary (maybe even tertiary).

I say this because it does not matter if you own the most beautifully designed minimalist tools. If you are not committed to offline time, you will replace one addiction with another. No premium minimalist phone or clever brick hack will help if you are not actively working on your internal relationship with technology. So today, I want to give you a few free ideas you can put in place to support that journey.

Good Time Management

Good time management is our first idea because it is one of the areas most people struggle with. Many of us get distracted simply because we do not have structure in our day, and that lack of structure makes it easy to drift. One of my favorite free tools for this is Flowkeeper. It is a simple desktop timer that keeps you accountable when you are working.

Most of us get distracted on our computers or our phones, and we do not have anything reminding us to stay on track. This tool helps you work in focused blocks, take real breaks, and reminds you to take a five minute walk to avoid sitting down all day. It is open source, it costs nothing, and it keeps you from falling into rabbit holes.

And even if you do get distracted, the alarm reminds you, “hey, you committed to taking a break. Go outside, get some fresh air, and then go back to work.”

The Public Library

The second idea is to visit your public library more often. Even though you technically pay for it through taxes, it is one of the most underrated resources you already have access to. The library offers books, audiobooks, classes, and other workshops, all of which you are already funding and can use to support your digital minimalist life. Moreover, it is a quiet space that encourages thinking, reflection, and learning, and it gives you a place to be present without constant distraction.

I love going to my library, picking up books, and just sitting to read without interruptions. There is always something happening there, even events I did not expect to enjoy at first but end up appreciating. It is a simple way to reconnect with the physical world and meet new people, which also happens to be our next idea.

Local Offline Groups

If you do not find what you want at the library, your city may still have plenty of offline groups that help you connect with people in the real world. In my city, for example, we have a local cycle group, a hiking group, a walking group, and even a “hang out and get a free beer” group. I do not drink alcohol, so I have not tried that one, but I see a lot of people show up to do art, talk, and just spend time together.

Many people are dealing with digital fatigue, and you will be surprised by how many are looking for phone‑free experiences. Even if your city does not have anything yet, you can start something simple by putting up a poster or posting online (ironically) and saying, “I want to meet up with people, read something, start a book club, or just hang out and talk.” You will find others who want the same thing. Local offline groups are an excellent way to create free or low‑cost gatherings with people who want to be present with each other.

Free App Blockers: Distraction Free for iPhone or Android

Not everybody needs a dumbphone, and not everybody is ready to make that transition. For those of you who want to stay on your current device but still reduce distraction, there are excellent free app blockers created by the community. You may have heard of companies like Brick or Bloom that charge a decent amount of money for NFC blockers, but the community decided to stop gatekeeping this functionality.

Tools like Foqos and Switchly are completely free and open source, and they give you time based blocks, QR code locks, and the full range of features without paying a dime. If you want to donate, that is up to you, but the tools themselves cost nothing. I love finding free and open source blockers because they make digital minimalism accessible to everyone. There are also similar tools for Mac and Windows that you can check out.

Phone Holidays

The final idea is one of my favorites: phone holidays. Now that you’ve learned how to manage your time, schedule a phone‑free day at least once a quarter. The goal is to set aside a full day where you don’t use your phone at all. You get to turn it off, let people know in advance, and go about your day without it.

It’s a simple, free way to reset your dopamine levels and explore your city, your neighborhood, or your own home without distraction. You might catch up on reading, clean the house, spend a full day with your family, or just enjoy the quiet. Any time frame that you choose will help you create a new pattern of interaction with technology. Over time, you’ll see that offline is way better than anything the online world has to offer.

Conclusion

As a reminder, these ideas are free, and there are many more out there. You don’t have to be perfect to start your digital minimalism journey. You don’t need the latest device. You just need the willingness to retrain your relationship with technology and take ownership of your life.

If this was helpful, share it with a friend. And if you want to add your own free idea, you can drop it in the comments below. After all, we learn from the community when the community comes together.

Over the past few weeks, I’ve received emails and comments from people who say their jobs make it nearly impossible to step away from their smartphones. 2FA apps, Slack, and email are among the most frequent culprits listed. Most of these services are treated by the business sector as must-haves with no real alternatives to be considered. Many of these workers told me they want to disconnect and reclaim parts of their lives. Still, they worry that switching to a dumbphone could make them seem obsolete at work or even cost them their jobs.

As someone with a 9-to-5, I understand the fear of having to look for another job, especially during the current economic downturn in many parts of the world. At the same time, I know firsthand that stepping back from technology and an always-on mindset can benefit both personal and professional life. Sharper focus during the day, quieter dinners, or better sleep are small examples of what happens when we learn to say no to work’s technology demands. Thus, on today’s newsletter, I want to offer a few ideas that can help you embrace digital minimalism at the workplace.

The Key To Freedom: Trust

The most important thing to understand about a business under a capitalist structure is that it uses trust as a currency. The more trust you are able to accumulate, the easier it will be for your boss to consider low tech engagement as an option. This invisible coin is acquired by delivering your tasks when you said you would, providing value to your employer, and cultivating personal relationships at the office. Yes, we would all love for the right to disconnect to be the norm in American society as it is in many European countries or Australia. However, the oligarchical class does not favor structures that protect the working person. Thus, we need to innovate under our own pretenses.

Once you have built that trust, you can begin asking for more flexibility in how you engage with work technology. A friend of mine is an IT director at a space research company where one employee uses a flip phone. Over dinner, he told me this person refused to get a smartphone, but his strong job performance made it worth exploring other options. I suggested giving him a YubiKey or an iPad during work hours so he could authenticate for his tasks without relying on a phone. After looking into it, my friend found that a simple change would allow that setup to become the default for this employee.

The only reason the company was willing to find a special solution instead of demanding smartphone compliance was because the employee had built years of trust and credibility within the company. I know how messed up that sounds, but without the currency of trust, you won’t get far. If you don’t believe me, ask the owner of the candy stand I used to work for when I was in college. My car broke down and I couldn’t cover my shift one Friday afternoon. I informed my manager, but she never relayed the info to the owner because she was sick that weekend as well.

The owner texted me to ask whether I was still coming in. This was my second interaction with him since I got hired. Just a few minutes later, I told him my car had broken down and sent photos from the shop. Since I lived 45 minutes away and had no access to public transportation, I explained that I couldn’t make the shift. He said he didn’t believe me, called me lazy, and told me that if I didn’t show up, I was fired. Was he a bad owner? Absolutely. But was a part of the equation that he didn’t trust me? Also yes. I am certain that if my manager had relayed the info to him or I had built a personal relationship, I would have avoided getting let go, but honestly I am glad that this happened because it was a real life lesson on what happens when communication channels break down and trust is nowhere to be found. Plus, I avoided working for a bad boss long term and got a job the following week at the University that was walking distance from my apartment.

The Dual Set-Up: Smart Week, Dumb Weekend

Having explored trust as the medium to ask for digital breaks, I understand that some roles simply require pronounced digital engagement. Maybe you are a trader, a software engineer, or a retail worker who needs an app for scheduling. In those cases, a full time dumbphone setup does not make sense. It creates too much friction and leads to mismatches at the office. For people in that situation, the best approach is not purity, but rhythm. A dual setup for your days on versus your days off.

The core idea is that you set up a defined window of time where disconnection is the default and you leave the smartphone behind. A weekend, an evening, or a short vacation that lets you focus on offline hobbies, family dinners, and creative projects. This oasis for your brain is essential to avoid presenteeism, the phenomenon where an employee keeps working even when they are not supposed to or when they are not at their most effective. They may be physically present, but they are not getting as much done because they are struggling to focus.

In the late capitalist stage, many people prioritize being present or available as the primary metric to judge themselves by. However, this mindset leads to burnout and poor work performance. A 2018 YouGov poll found that 60 percent of workers check their email during vacation, often because they feel pressure to stay available. This behavior is often a coping mechanism for the fear that their absence will cause problems at work. The counterfactual is that coworkers and managers figure out solutions when someone is not available. Even people taking the poll admitted that their boss probably does not care if they disconnect for a few days. Only 5% replied that their boss definitely wants them to stay connected. These findings suggest that the fear of catastrophe is psychological, not operational.

As you internalize this reality, the dual setup becomes easier to adopt. During the workweek you use your smartphone fully because your job requires it. You respond to messages, check schedules, and handle the digital load. Once your defined window of disconnection arrives (weekly or daily), you switch to your simpler device and let that become the default. The key at this point is consistency. You tell the people who need to know that you are reachable by call or text, but not through apps or email. You place the smartphone in a drawer or leave it at home, and you let the offline life shape the pace of your weekend or evening. Over time your brain learns the rhythm and recovers. You work when it is time to work, and you rest when it is time to rest. The dual setup becomes a boundary that protects your attention without asking you to abandon the tools your job depends on.

You Got the Green Light, Now What

This is the part that is both funny and sad. Many people who try digital detox methods or convince their employers to accept these new engagement rules, eventually don’t know what to do with their free time. The boredom hits them harder than expected, and they drift back to digital stimulation as their default mode of engagement. It feels as if our generation has been trained to seek constant stimulation and to find anything else boring. Unfortunately for us, some new research says that’s exactly what’s happened. Studies show that boredom intolerance is one of the strongest predictors of heavy smartphone use, and that people now reach for digital sources almost automatically when faced with even a few seconds of stillness.

It is our sad reality, but that’s why offline exists. Offline is here to retrain us and help us reconnect with nature, with others, and with ourselves. Whether you adopt a dual setup, convince your boss to let you use a dumbphone, or simply strip your smartphone down to the essentials, the point is the same. We need offline. If we want our lives back, we have to prioritize offline activities and shared experiences. Decades ago, the labor movement demanded 8 hours for work, 8 hours for sleep, and 8 hours for what we will. Our always‑on culture has quietly flipped that equation into 4 hours for sleep and 20 for what they will.

I know this may breed resentment or despair, but I want to remind you that you do not need to fix everything at once. Don’t let the perfect be the enemy of the good. Start today, embrace offline, and find small ways to disconnect from work. Test the waters, push a little, and you may discover that your boss is just as tired of being connected as you are.

Some explain that their work requires them to stay plugged in through Slack or email. Others bemoan the QR code only menu at the neighborhood restaurant or the new sign at the store announcing they no longer accept cash. A growing number share that their transit system requires an app for schedules or even to board the bus. And finally, the final boss within the community, many cite the dread of telling friends they no longer use WhatsApp, iMessage, or RCS.

Without much surprise, this environment breeds stress and confusion for anyone seeking a simple life. Moreover, the pressure only intensifies with the fetishization of digital minimalism as a kind of seventh circle enlightenment. In other words, if you do not own a Light Phone 3, an E-ink monitor to reduce blue light, an analog watch, plus an abundance of free time to record your offline hobbies and post them on socials, are you really achieving the level of disconnected living that Instagram insists you should aspire to?

This pattern, unfortunately, is not new. The pit of perfection and performance shows up in every niche community. It shows itself in the productivity world, in vegetarian and vegan circles, and in the fitness community where “purity” is idolized, and anything less is deemed as failure. This is exactly why I want to share five principles that help you actually resist technology instead of simply wishing your busy life would transform into a simple one.

Principle 1: One Area Per Quarter

Most people believe that once their phone goes away, everything gets solved. And it does, for about one weekend. Then, on Monday, life returns with a reality check and brings you back to square one. You remember that your child’s school only communicates through an app, that you need a way to join a Zoom meeting while traveling abroad, or that the concert you booked months in advance requires a QR ticket you can no longer access on a flip phone. Many at this point go back to the smartphone “temporarily,” but the convenience pulls them in again.

This is what happens when you switch on impulse and all at once, without considering the larger implications of the change. I had this experience during the pandemic. I moved to the Light Phone 2, the pandemic hit a few months later, and I found myself back on a Pixel because I was afraid I would miss work meetings. It took four weeks of deep planning and research to understand how to operate in this new world without a smartphone and still keep my job. Only then did the switch become sustainable for me and I went back to the Light Phone full time.

Since then, I have learned to focus on changing one area at a time, and I advise you to do the same. Pick one: work, family communication, entertainment and travel, school, etc. Then, give yourself 3 months to experiment. A quarterly focus gives you enough space to understand the dependencies, find alternatives, and build habits that can survive everything the new tech-driven world will throw at you.

Instead of ripping out every digital convenience at once, you choose a single domain, redesign it methodically, and let the adjustment settle. I also recommend keeping a paper notebook for this process. Write down the apps you rely on, the workarounds that felt manageable, and the ones that did not. Over time, these notes become a map of your digital habits and a reference point for where you used to be and where you are going.

Principle 2: Redefine what “normal” means

It is not only your inner voice that resists the change. Society has shifted to a new model of interaction, and any challenge to the status quo is met with pressure. Your family wonders why you have not replied to their WhatsApp message. Your boss grows impatient even though you clearly said you would reply by the end of the day. People get irritated that you are no longer participating in the system. Their expectations are not malicious. They are simply following the norms they have been sold by tech giants.

The new normal for our society is instant. AI can generate a design or a video idea in seconds. Doordash gives you the location of your driver, so you don’t have any gap in your mind to wonder or wait. Slowly, we are all trained to assume that everything should move at that speed. If a tool can respond immediately, if your dinner can be tracked at every stop, why can’t everyone know everything all at once? This mindset, a terrible one at that, creates constant pressure to be available, reachable, and responsive 24/7. Therefore, when you step outside that expectation, even for good reasons, it feels like you are breaking an unwritten rule.

Thus, what do you do? You redefine normal. Take some time out of your day to establish a set of rules that are normal for you. Put them on your fridge. Do not prioritize society’s expectations, but reflect and write down what is acceptable to your new lifestyle. For example, you might decide that 24 hours is a reasonable window for group chat replies. You might tell your boss that after 5 p.m., you are offline unless someone is dying or the project will fail.

When you set a new standard for yourself, you stop trying to keep up with a culture that treats urgency as a default. Once you define your own expectations, you give others a chance to adjust to them. And over time, they do.

Principle 3: Reinhabiting the physical world

This is probably the most important principle. The internet has convinced us that it has all the answers. And our brains, developed over the years to value information, love to drink from its torrential stream. Videos, articles, opinions, shorts, reels, and reactions, our nervous system eats them up. Until it doesn’t and it feels fatigued. Research shows that the brain needs breaks and processing time. The current status quo is designed to eliminate both.

Blaise Pascal already observed this in the 17th century when he wrote, “All of humanity’s problems stem from man’s inability to sit quietly in a room alone.” The tragedy for us is that the noise now follows us everywhere. Information is no longer confined to a desktop at home or the evening news at five. It floods our attention at the bus stop, on our work computer, and soon, if companies have their way to redraft this plan from 2016, it will affect our national parks.

As a result of this onslaught on our attention, we must be deliberate in planning to reinhabit the physical world. Many overthink it with elaborate plans, but it should be simple. One day per week, choose to go for a walk without your phone. One weekend per month, head to a friend’s backyard to play board games or cook on the grill. And once a year, take a long trip (7-10 days) to a quiet cabin to reset your dopamine and explore the woods. In between, you can add hobbies like sewing, going to the local museum, building LEGO, woodworking, gardening, or meditating. Once you incorporate more of these physical‑world activities, you realize something obvious: screen time wasn’t the problem, but a symptom of not regularly scheduling human connection and offline life.

Principle 4: Become a late adopter

The magic of these principles is that they build on each other. Once you redefine what normal means, slow down your new lifestyle changes to one area per quarter, and spend more time offline, there is a natural habit switch in technology adoption. However, this doesn’t mean that the pull of innovation will cease to have its effect altogether. Tech companies are experts at manufacturing urgency. They will try to convince you that you must have the latest and greatest. That’s where principle 4 comes to the fore. As a bonus, this principle also saves you money.

Becoming a late adopter is counterintuitive to the human brain. We want more, better, faster, greater. Our instincts reward novelty, and our culture worships it. Late adopters, on the other hand, are treated as slow, out of touch, cantankerous, even stubborn. They are seen as vestiges of a past that is soon to disappear. Yet here’s the irony: the biggest tech innovators, the very people building the future, imposed strict late‑adoption rules on their own children. The Silicon Valley giants understand that rapid change is not compatible with the way our brains develop. As a result, we should take a page out of their playbook and first observe, analyze, and incorporate new technologies only when they make sense to the life that you are trying to build.

The glue of this principle is that it invites you to be content with what you already have and to accept new technology only when the exchange of payment for value is outsized. When you adopt slowly, you avoid buying products that become obsolete the moment a company gets sold, pivots to a subscription, or collapses under unsustainable hype. You stop paying for experiments disguised as innovation (like I did with the Rabbit R11) and start choosing tools that have proven their worth in the real world. You get to protect your attention and wallet by letting time, not marketing, determine what deserves a place at home.

Principle 5: Build a community of the willing

And finally, we arrive at principle 5 for sustainable tech resistance: shifting to low tech together. Movements need people, and as much as I’d like to say that you can do this alone, you cannot. The gravitational pull of the digital world is too strong, and the social pressure to stay plugged in is relentless. Therefore, you find allies in the battle.

Start by having conversations with your inner circle: family members, close friends, maybe one coworker or two. They don’t need to align 100% on the same path as you, but they may agree on shifting email culture, dinners without phones, being ok with slower replies to messages, or keeping tech out of family trips. Any digital shift you create as a community will make moving offline smooth and sustainable. It builds an environment where your choices are supported and you’re less likely to slide back to the digital abyss. And even if you do, you’ll have a surrounding team to pull you back out of the pit.

Hannah Arendt reminds us of this when she wrote: “Power corresponds to the human ability not just to act but to act in concert. Power is never the property of an individual; it belongs to a group and remains in existence only so long as the group keeps together.” My hope for your digital minimalism path is that you get to create a beautiful melody, a concert where humans are the artists, not the instruments played by systems designed to extract from us.

Conclusion

I hope today’s newsletter encourages you to take action. These five principles are meant to help you build a calmer and more intentional relationship with technology. You do not need dramatic gestures or a perfect system. You only need a steady framework that slows the pace and helps you process the world. In the end the goal is not less technology, it’s more life.

After reading Body Electric by Manoush Zomorodi, I am convinced of something I instinctively knew but never had neatly organized research for: screens are polluting our lives. I use the word “pollute” intentionally. Like the smog that settles over the skyscrapers of rapidly growing cities, this issue is mostly avoidable. Yet, everywhere we go, a screen is waiting for us. At work, there’s the laptop. At home, we have our phones. Ordering food means tapping through a glowing menu. Even at the salon or barbershop, a TV plays a sports game or a scenic view on repeat. This ambient screen pollution is more concerning than our individual habits for two reasons. First, it reinforces the notion that we can only experience the world through a technological filter. Second, it harms the way our bodies are meant to move, sense, and exist in the physical world.

This issue of “public sphere screen expansion” should concern us far more than the screen time numbers on our kids’ tablets. It is the signal that points to a world where opting out of electro-smog is not a viable choice.

How We Got Here

Cost and convenience. Those are the key words that brought screens into every part of our lives. Each industry adopted them for its own reasons. Bars used them to provide entertainment. Car manufacturers relied on them to make driving “easier.” Book publishers embraced them to open new revenue streams, and doctor’s offices installed them to distract patients from the stress of waiting. Over time, screens created a world where we could escape the harsh realities around us without needing to interact with anyone. They offered a private refuge in public spaces, a way to retreat into ourselves even when surrounded by others.

But the deeper issue is that we accepted this change without much pushback. We allowed screens to live in our pockets, in the backs of restaurants, and at grocery store checkouts. We didn’t protest when they replaced human workers or influenced our decisions through constant advertising. If anything, many people welcomed this shift. By letting screens handle tasks, we could go through our days without needing to interact, socialize, or confront the tumult of the world. The convenience has been appealing, and the cost to our shared social environment easier to overlook.

As a result, we are now reckoning with the effects. Our brains are overloaded with information, and our bodies are paying for a life spent sitting and staring. The book from Zomorodi describes how constant screen use traps us in what researchers call “low-grade immobility,” a state where we are technically awake but physiologically still.

You can see the effects everywhere. Our kids struggle to handle the discomfort of a plane ride without an iPad because their bodies are conditioned to expect constant stimulation. Adults find it difficult to locate a book in the library using the classification codes because our spatial memory weakens when we rely on screens for navigation. Even this newsletter, this very newsletter encouraging you to move offline is delivered through a screen and typed by someone looking at one.1 Screens, unfortunately, have become the easiest option and the unquestioned norm, and our bodies have adapted in ways that make it harder to live without them.

What To Do Then?

It is ironic to me that the solution to the smog of the city is the same solution to our screen saturated lives: time spent in nature. Many people try to restrict their way into digital minimalism. And while it works for a moment, it is rarely sustainable. The greatest predictor of an offline life is not the app blockers systems or the fancy dumbphones, but time dedicated to experiencing the world without the mediation of glowing rectangles.

Physical movement and planning ahead are far more effective cures for the electro smog surrounding us 24/7 than any trick or tool. Even as an advocate of dumbphones, I know firsthand that people often buy these basic devices and, instead of going out to live life and enjoy the free time they just reclaimed from the internet, they simply shift their habits to overstimulation in front of laptops or TVs.

And how could they not? The internet has taught us that it is filled with interesting things our brains want. It is easier to feel satisfied by the web’s constant novelty than to sit with the silence of a boring afternoon at the park or a slow day at the office. Screens offer instant stimulation whereas the physical world asks for patience. One is engineered to keep us hooked. The other requires us to relearn how to be present.

Therefore, choosing to step outside of the confines of screens is hard. Not impossible, but a continuous choice. It requires that we take a break from work and go for a walk. It demands we choose paper money instead of the credit card. It asks us to get lost in the city over the certainty that Google Maps delivers. And while here in this newsletter I am not asking you to forego all screens, I want to encourage you to leave them aside more often and advocate for public spaces to turn them off.

Rebalancing Screens

What we need with the topic of screens in public view is a rebalancing act. Similar to how society eventually regulated smoking in public, I am convinced that screens deserve their own boundaries. The default in shared spaces should be that screens are off or absent. Some restaurants and bars are catching on this already. Moreover, in places where screens are needed, they should be free of advertisements and distractions. Human spaces should prioritize human connection, not digital noise.

I know I am asking for a lot from a society that is more interested in collecting and controlling our data than giving us the decency of paying for a tank of gas without being prompted to use Klarna. Yet I know this is possible.

We already do it at The Masters, where phones are banned and spectators willingly comply. One town in France and another in Japan are experimenting with screen‑free zones at a larger scale. These examples prove that a different relationship with public technology is not only imaginable but achievable.

The road to a screenless experience is almost vanishing, but I know many of you long for places where humans belong outside the digital void. So do not just dream of that space. Make it happen. Talk to your local business about turning off the TV. Ask your boss for a screen free work retreat. Plan a weekend at a cabin without the smartphone. Create a Friday dinner tradition with friends where the table stays clear of devices. You and I can do this. The world will not rebalance itself. It needs people willing to live their own lives instead of watching someone else’s through Instagram.

We look at the behavioral and psychological mechanisms behind technology addiction and the growing agreement that constant connectivity affects attention, presence, and identity. We also discuss practical steps individuals and communities can take to reclaim focus, strengthen real‑world relationships, and build richer offline lives. Hope you enjoy it, find value, and share it with a friend.

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Every year, I used to tune into the latest keynotes from tech companies. It was the moment to see what new features, devices, and ideas were about to enter the world. I used to enjoy them, but it has been a few years since I have watched one. Not only are they more of the same, small improvements and negligible hardware upgrades at the same or higher costs, but they have also become a way for companies to hype up “answers” that do not actually settle real world questions.

However, a friend who works at Google told me I should pay attention to the I/O keynote for 2026. He said Google would be introducing an interesting feature for digital minimalism and overall wellbeing. Moreover, he gave me an insider preview of what is coming down the pipeline. Not every feature will make it to the final version, but the theme is clear. Google wants to become our therapist.

Translating Corporate Speak

Before we analyze whether these new features are actually helpful, it is useful to look closely at what Google said, what they avoided saying, and what they truly meant throughout the presentation.

Alanna Veiga, product manager at Google, opened the Digital Wellbeing segment with “We get it. Sometimes, our phones can be a lot.”

Translation: We built a device ecosystem that exploits your vulnerabilities through habit forming design, attention draining features, and patterns that damage mental health. Now we want credit for pretending to empathize with you.

She followed this with a relatable anecdote: “We have all been there. You open your phone just to check the weather and 45 minutes later you are scrolling with no clue how you got there.”

Translation: You may not know how you got there, but we do. We expanded screen sizes, encouraged addictive services to flourish, and built the pipeline that lets other apps exploit your life. Our model of business is extracting your data, after all.

From there, she shifted to the limitations of existing tools. “If you are like me, you have already tried setting app limits. But here is the thing. They are just as easy to snooze as they are to set.”

Translation: We created Digital Wellbeing features like screentime as a bandage for the psychological strain we helped create. We could have made it effective, but that would make us less money.

Finally, she closed with “Extreme measures that completely lock you out of apps are simply not practical.”

Translation: We cannot let you switch to a dumbphone because our business depends on your data.

It is important to recognize that Google and other large tech companies understand the conundrum they are in. The public is becoming more aware of digital addiction, the mental health crisis among children, and the growing fatigue around always‑on technology. Courts are no longer siding with them as easily, and the old model of endless engagement is starting to crack. This is why features like pause point now exist. They are designed to keep Google in your pocket, not to give you real control. So let’s dissect these new features coming to Google’s Android and whether they are actual solutions to the digital void we are in.

Pause Point, School Mode, Digital Reset

The feature that Google touted is called Pause Point. It works similarly to apps like Clearspace or OneSec. When you open an app you have marked as “distracting,” Pause Point interrupts you with a screen that encourages you to breathe, set a timer until the next intervention, or choose an app that Google considers more productive than the social media abyss.

While there is research showing that these interventions can help, they are still another example of something that can be bypassed. As you see in the final screen on the image above, there is an option to ignore the alerts and open the app anyway. All you have to do is wait ten seconds. Some people will benefit from the interruption, but the root cause remains untouched.

Think of it like a child who wants cookies and you simply place the jar on a higher shelf. Yes, you have made it harder to reach. For some kids, that is enough. Others will pull up a chair, stack a few cushions, build a makeshift ladder, and get to the cookies anyway. Not that I am speaking from experience. Google is once again trying to convince us that they care, when in reality they are offering a small hurdle. If they were serious, they would create a true hard blocker. A blocker that you set and when you hit your limit, the app will no longer open. Small companies are doing this, like Dumber Mini, but not Google.

Instead, more capitulating features are coming. As more schools ban smartphones from their campuses, tech companies are scrambling to convince education officials to keep allowing these devices. Google is planning to harden School Mode on Android, I’ve been told. The feature began in 2024 and expanded last year, but now it is slated for a full overhaul. When a child enters a designated location, only approved apps will appear. This gives schools a “reason” to keep smartphones in circulation because the software locks itself down to the bare minimum.

Another digital minimalist feature that was shared with me will introduce AI as a kind of coach. There were plenty of AI mentions during the I/O 2026 presentation. It will auto‑fill your information in a browser, book a reservation at your favorite restaurant, and manage or create new widgets for your screen. But later this year, Google hopes the on‑device AI will be able to create something far more personal.

Their “Gemini intelligence” will feed on even more of your data by studying patterns of usage for your distracting apps, identify when you are vulnerable, and talk you through the difficult moment. This is the feature that will probably not make it or will need to be heavily refined due to legal concerns. We already know what has happened when people have used technology as their confidant or coach, unfortunately.

Finally, there are other digital wellbeing refinements in their aesthetic department. The direction that Google and other tech startups are taking is to take advantage of this moment of tech fatigue to sell you more products, mine more of your data, and deepen your dependency while presenting it as a “choice.” Instead of doing what they ought to do, which is give you an actual choice to opt out, they are packaging the same system in softer colors and calling it care.

Real Digital Wellbeing Solutions

I was once happy to hear about digital wellbeing solutions from big companies. Ten years ago, when Apple released Screen Time, I genuinely believed I would stop doomscrolling and finally put my phone down. But as Alanna reminded us, those features were just as easy to turn off as they were to turn on. They never addressed the underlying problem, and how could they? Big Tech cannot fix the problem it profits from. All it can do is add another layer of soft friction that most people learn to bypass within days.

The real solution to our digital fatigue and the rise of controlling technologies is to overhaul our expectations entirely. To take care of ourselves. I know that sounds daunting, but do not be afraid to start. I have gone through countless setups in my own digital wellness journey. I have used tablets and flip phones, restricted smartphones, Light Phones, and even lockboxes. I tried everything and learned something from each iteration. Seven years in, I finally found what worked for me. I have a dumbphone for personal life and a work phone for my job. I organized my life, built a calendar I actually follow, and prioritize offline time from 6-9pm when I don’t have work meetings. Am I always perfect? No.

But in a typical week, my total device screentime across work, laptop use, and phone use has decreased to about four to five hours per day. That is a huge shift for someone who once spent nine to ten hours on their phone alone. As you begin your own changes, I am confident you will find a solution. Will it be hard? Yes. Will it take some time? For sure. But in the end, it will be worth it because offline always is.

I recently watched a CNBC video featuring someone who lives in Shenzhen, China. It was quite eye-opening to reckon with how thoroughly everything has been digitized. The person showed how he opens his apartment with only a fingerprint and checks out from the grocery store using nothing but his palm.

It reminded me of the Jetsons, WALL-E, and other futuristic cartoons that promised a life of ease and comfort. A vision of a frictionless experience that, one way or another, leads to an “optimized existence.”

In the middle of those thoughts, I started to consider what living in such a “future” actually requires. What tradeoffs are demanded in order to avoid inconvenience, and whether those inconveniences are actually parts of life we should embrace rather than escape.

Today, we take a look at the “future” and analyze its worthiness.

The Infinity Machine

Communication Platforms

Our exploration starts with the present. The majority of people now use an instant messenger application: WhatsApp, Signal, Telegram, WeChat, or the bane of the dumbphone community, RCS. Do not confuse these with the early platforms that enabled worldwide communication, like AOL, Yahoo Messenger, or MSN Messenger. Those programs were interested in relaying information that could wait. We logged on, caught up with the conversation, chatted with friends, and set up an away message for others to see like this one:

Those were the precursors to the current all-in-one services that governments and big tech companies now provide. They were innocuous by comparison. If anything, the early messengers were used to connect and set up plans, rather than to distract, monetize, or monitor.

Over the last few years, the new wave of communication apps has moved far beyond their original purpose and burrowed into the infrastructure of everyday life. Walk into the streets of Kolkata, India, or Leipzig, Germany, and people ask for your WhatsApp number to communicate, ask questions about a product, or get customer service. Without it, you are effectively out of contact with the majority of the population.

Translate that to the streets of Beijing, and it gets considerably worse. WeChat integrates so tightly into daily life that it is required for communication, shopping, utility payments, and access to government services. It is your apartment key, your wallet, your employer, and your social circle, all compressed into one application controlled by a single company. And that company is not indifferent to the state. Research published in Policy and Internet found that WeChat has evolved into a powerful and largely overlooked component of China's policing and public security infrastructure. It is a mandatory install for most people without any recourse, so everyone opts ins into this surveillance. In other words, it’s WeChat or exile.

And before anyone says "well, that's expected because of communist China," consider that Western democracies are not as far behind as we like to believe. The mechanisms are more subtle, cloaked in terms of service agreements, but the pattern is eerily similar. Platforms suppress voices, reshape information, and reward compliance with access. And soon, the concept of the everyday everything app will be a reality. Elon Musk has been openly building X into a full financial and communication platform, nearing public launch as of this writing. While the architecture looks different, the destination is not.

These are simple reminders that when we allow apps to extend beyond their initial capabilities, we allow them to extract more from us than the value they deliver. Convenience is in tow, but collection is the form of payment. And when they have more data about your preferences, they can continue their cycle of exploitation. This is why I tell people not to worry so much about RCS or WhatsApp or Signal when switching to a dumbphone. Yes, you lose constant access to your contacts.1 Yes, you may need to wait until you are at a laptop to respond. But it is worth it because they cannot mine your data around the clock.

How To Rule The World

Smart Fridges or Dumb TVs

The smartification of our devices is getting out of control. We have smart this and smart that, with very little consideration of whether a given object should have advanced technology at all. Take my in-laws' new stove. It includes smart recognition so that, if someone inadvertently leaves the burner on, the stove turns off automatically. A reasonable safety feature in theory. In practice, it only works with stainless steel pots and pans. Use ceramic, Teflon, or any other common material and the stove either locks itself and refuses to deliver heat or fails to turn off entirely. The "smart" feature makes the appliance less reliable than a dumb one.

You know what would have worked just as well? An embedded timer.

As someone who has produced the unmistakable smell of a burnt pan due to carelessness, I understand the appeal of automated safety. But a simple, adjustable timer that cuts power after a set period is cheaper to build, cheaper to buy, requires no software calibration, and works with any pot you own. The problem was already solved. Instead of iterating upon the proven method, manufacturers chose complexity over reliability and charged a premium for it.

The same logic applies to the smart fridge. Refrigerators are supposed to cool food and keep it safe for eating later, not play videos, display recipes, or quietly catalogue the items placed inside. And the television has followed the same path. What was once a box that delivered entertainment is now a surveillance device sitting in your living room. In December 2024, Texas Attorney General Ken Paxton filed lawsuits against Samsung, Sony, LG, TCL, and Hisense for collecting viewing data through Automated Content Recognition, a system he described as "an uninvited, invisible digital invader." Moreover, a 2024 University College London study confirmed that ACR gathers viewing history, location data, and behavior patterns, which manufacturers then sell to third parties. The television you purchased is, in turn, costing you even more than you imagined by selling a detailed viewing record of your household.

This is what the rise of convenience ends up doing. It offers something genuine first, which is how it earns trust, and then renegotiates the terms to disadvantage us greatly. A general view of how they got us to believe this process is found in the rise of household tech in the previous century.

In the 1970s, the microwave entered the American household and saved real time. Then, the garage opener removed a small but genuine friction. And finally, the Motorola Razr (oh how can we forget!) eliminated long-distance calling bills. Each of those innovations solved a specific problem cleanly and honestly. The exchange was pretty fair. What we have now is something different: solutions to problems we did not have, sold at a price we have not fully read.

The Fear of “Falling Behind”

What makes all of this hard is that we have a psychological desire to belong. We fear being left behind. Not adapting feels like falling behind, and falling behind feels like a kind of social death. It signals to everyone around us that we are different, slow, or not part of the pack. Researchers studying technology adoption have found that individuals and organizations increasingly make adoption decisions not on the basis of genuine need, but out of fear that inaction will cost them relevance. Fear of Missing Out, long associated with social media, has become the primary engine of technological compliance.

This is precisely how Winston ends up where he does in 1984. His submission to Big Brother is not a single dramatic moment of defeat, but rather the product of accumulated small capitulations, each one rationalized as necessary. Each one narrowing the distance between who he was and what the Party required. In the beginning of the book, he has conviction and resolve. By the end, all of his willpower has been replaced by alignment.

This parallel is not hyperbolic for those of us in the 21st Century. Every time we adopt a platform because opting out feels socially costly, every time we accept a term of service agreement without reading it, every time we trade a piece of privacy for a marginally smoother experience, we are making a version of that same calculation. A version of that rationalization.

The future being sold to us is not inevitable. It is a business model, and without our buy‑in that model collapses. The frictionless apartment in Shenzhen is impressive, but it is still a product. Recognizing that we have the power to choose which products we allow into our lives gives us real agency. We can choose technology that respects us instead of technology that requires us to give a single company permanent access to our home, our movement, our groceries, and our identity. The question is not whether the technology works. Often, it does. The question is who it works for, and what it costs us in the parts of life that never appear in the demo reel.

Thus, I invite you today to think before you consume. To pause before accepting the terms and conditions. And to recognize that our collective refusal to comply2 can reshape the future we are being offered. We still have the power to choose the products we allow into our lives, and that choice determines the kind of world we build together.

“Somebody has to take care of me.” Those are the words that stuck last Friday when I met Christopher on my way back from a short trip to Steamboat Springs. He was a chef in the Winter Park area who decided that it was time to put an end to his alcohol addiction. As we sat next to each other in the Bustang, he told me about his journey from Florida to Alaska and eventually to Colorado, where he had been working at one of the resorts. While he arrived sober at the job site 8 months before, a break-up and family tragedy dysregulated his resolve and put him back on the bottle. After what he described as more booze than his body should take, he was now heading back to Florida to enter rehab.

Christopher’s experience is familiar to anyone who has lived with addiction in their orbit. The cycle of resolve, recovery, and relapse is far more common than most people realize. Studies place the rate of recurrence between 60-80% depending on the substance. It shows how difficult it is for our biological system to expulse and detach from something we have learned to rely on.

That is why today we are going to look at Smartphone Dementia Clinics, also known as tech addiction rehabilitation centers, to understand how severe phone dependency has become, how difficult it is to correct, and what you can do to take care of yourself.

Do We Really Need Smartphone Addiction Clinics?

Yes, but let me show you why. While relatively novel in the United States, tech addiction rehab centers have become standard in the largest economies of Asia and some countries within the European Union. South Korea is the most involved country with “regional education offices that provide services such as in-school counseling, screening surveys, preventive disciplines and, for severe cases, addiction camps.” They started this work back in 2007 and have the most robust system in the region.

The data supports the need for these centers. In South Korea, 40% of teenagers are overdependent on technology. Across the Pacific, in the United States, a study sample showed that 46% of smartphone users call themselves addicted. In Europe, parliaments have taken action and restricted social media usage from a legislative stance. A cursory look into the graphs below tells us that the problem is on the rise globally.

And as much as we’d like to deny it, this over-dependence on smartphones is a sociogenic problem. The loop of technology dependence is in essence peer pressure maximized by business, government, educational, and social institutions. If you don’t believe me, remind me again why did you download the Temu and TikTok apps last year? Maybe some of you did it because you are avant-garde and like to stay on top of trends. However, the majority of people learn about apps as a result of a recommendation from friends and family.

As social beings, we are shaped most by what the people around us are using, and services that offer convenience rise to the top not because competitors cannot beat them, but because our collective behavior rewards whatever spreads fastest. More alarmingly this sequence is not only affecting impressionable minds, working age adults and seniors are relying on their devices more.

There is, however, a silver lining. The inverse of over‑dependence is also true: as more people adopt low‑tech platforms like dumbphones or use NFC‑blocking tools on their smartphones, their friends and families begin to consider stepping back from distracting technologies as well. Over time, phone makers like Sunbeam, Light Phone, and Mudita have made these transitions easier. And while none of these devices are perfect, the dumbphone movement continues to grow in both popularity and reliability as more people look for practical ways to address the problem of screens.

Now that we have established that the issue is clear and that we need these rehabilitation centers in one way or another, the next question is why it is so hard to get rid of smartphone overdependence. Why is returning to a low dopamine digital diet harder today than it has ever been?

The Mechanics of Digital Dependence

The sociogenic portion of the problem is clear. We have created a society based on technology and dependent on it. As our friends adopt these services, so do we. That part is straightforward. There is deeper layer, however, that is rarely discussed. Smartphones are designed for exploitation, make no mistake, but they are not the only culprits of our dependency.

A significant part of the problem comes from the way we form attachments. Attachment theory tells us that humans bond with whatever provides comfort, predictability, and a sense of safety. In the past, we sought these feelings in many different places such as churches, stadiums, friendships, nature, hobbies, and community life. Over time, app developers and tech companies created a single device that delivers all of these comforts at once. The result is an imbalanced attachment that mirrors the patterns found in other forms of addiction.

Bowling Alone

Christopher, from the Bustang, understood that he needed a rehab center because he had to go deeper than the surface level of his dependency on alcohol. He did not become addicted simply because alcohol exists. He became addicted because it became the default coping mechanism of choice. The substance becomes the shortcut to emotional regulation or complete escapism. The same dynamic is at play with smartphones. The phone becomes the fastest way to turn away from the crazy news, the work problems, and the main issue that is plaguing your mind.

This is where the inner work becomes essential. A large part of the issue is that many of us are not living with intention. We are living the default that is presented to us. I know this firsthand because the way I got involved in this whole smartphone dependency was by moving to a rural area, working long hours with no friends or family around me, and finding little to no entertainment sources to help me cope. That is when my usage of social media climbed to twelve or thirteen hours per day.

Without intentional structures, without healthier ways to regulate our emotions, without a clear sense of what we want our attention to serve, we fall back into the easiest option. And the easiest option is always the one that is already in our pocket.

The Upswing

That is why in this mechanical understanding I am nudging you to address the deeper issue in your life that makes your smartphone the default option. Maybe you need to have that tough conversation and resolve the dispute with a family member. Maybe you need to go to therapy and deal with the depressive state that has settled into your life. Maybe, just maybe, you need to get out of the house and stop being a hermit and engage in some late night adventure as risky as it may seem.

Yes, adopting slower tech is a mechanism that will help you in this journey. The lifestyle change aspect of digital minimalism shapes our mindsets to accept inconvenience and create new reward pathways. But whether you and I like it or not, the issue runs deeper, and that is why it is so hard to let technology go.

So What Do We Do?

At a personal level, we have to deal with the deeper issue. I hope I did not get too preachy, but it is true. However, there are environmental factors we need to confront as well. In the family unit, we have to return to screen free technologies and clearly delineated spaces for the internet (wired desktop computer anyone?). In schools and learning centers, we need to stop allowing tech to be the default and retrain the skills that AI cannot replicate. Critical thinking, handwriting, spatial reasoning, emotional regulation, and face to face communication. We need to teach our kids to use tech and not be used by it.

In the public sphere, our influence is smaller, but it is not zero. Earlier this year, a man with fifty year season tickets was denied entry to Dodger Stadium because he did not have the app. After the community went up in arms over this ableist and ageist decision (don’t let me get started on digital tickets), the Dodgers reversed course and printed his full season of tickets. It should prove to you that when we unite in our efforts for offline, we can make a small difference. Go ahead and complain to your QR Menu only restaurant, local theater venue, and more. Do it in the nicest way though.

Finally, we have to de‑stigmatize rehab treatment for any condition. Our society casts doubt on people who have a substance abuse problem. We go further and punish the people who need the most help. We rarely question the corporations making a killing on opioids or the companies selling the medications to treat the very diseases they helped create. At some point, we have to recognize that waiting for institutions to fix this is not a strategy. If anything, it’s a delusion.

However, somebody has to do something. Somebody has to take care of you. And that somebody is you.

Dry January for Smartphones

Afreka and Jack share how using a flip phone changed their relationships with technology, the challenges users face, and why their mission keeps them focused and growing.

If you’re curious about living more offline, want tips for making the leap, or just want to hear what it feels like to ditch your smartphone, you’ll want to tune in!

Links

https://dumb.co/

https://www.theatlantic.com/technology/2026/04/month-offline-smartphone-detox/686911/

In the fight against distraction, one of the toughest hurdles to clear is the barrier of entertainment. I once thought this was an issue limited to so‑called “developed” countries where the infrastructure is built to foment individualism. In the United States, Canada, and Australia, long car commutes, cul‑de‑sac suburban isolation, and cubicle‑based work routines create a daily rhythm that leaves people hungry for stimulation. Thus, it is easy to assume that distraction grows out of this architecture of separation.

One might believe that societies organized around communal practices and shared rhythms would be protected from the pull of Big Tech. If anyone could resist the lure of endless entertainment, it would seem to be communities where life is lived face to face and identity is rooted in kinship. However, as more detailed accounts surface in news sources and research journals, we have come to understand that no one is immune to the attractive power of the web. Take the example of this tribe in the Amazonian rainforest who received the “blessing” of Starlink in 2022.

After 9 months of exposure to the digital void, the tribe is “grappling with the same challenges that have racked American households for years.” It is both scintillating and dismaying to see how agile the world wide web is at wrecking and monopolizing attention. The speed at which it reshapes habits is almost mechanical. Whether you are in a “civilized” society or a remote tribe, it does not ask for permission. Instead, it arrives and forces the human mind to bend to it.

That is why today I want to share with you the secret to cultivating an offline life. You already know it, but you may need a reminder to make it actionable in your daily life.

Low Stimulation Days

Your brain needs a break. A day, or even a set hour of the day, where it can rest from all of the emails, notifications, and messages it engages with on a weekly basis. We already learned this in earlier battles against overload. When industrial labor pushed people to the edge of exhaustion, the weekend emerged as a cultural safeguard. During this period, the working class fought for a set of conditions that allowed them to tend to their families, their homes, and their artful creations.

Long before that, the ancient Israelites cried out seeking the same kind of relief. Under Egyptian rule, they lived in a system that demanded unbroken productivity. It became so severe that the Exodus tale recounts divine intervention as the only way they could secure even a single day of rest.

Today, our corporate and technology overlords are doing the same to us. They demand clicks and taps to fuel their digital factories. The widgets are not made with our hands, but through our eyes. The main difference is that you and I have allowed them to mine our minds by holding their glowing screens. We have, in essence, opened the gates willingly, letting them extract attention the way past empires extracted labor.1

Attention As A Scarce Resource

This is why we must embrace brain rest as a part of our weekly routine. Your mind needs a predictable rhythm of quiet. Choosing a shutoff time, and yes I am asking you to actually turn off your devices, or dedicating a full day offline has been shown to reduce stress and increase cognitive strength. It has even helped children with concussions to improve their recovery time. So before you start planning your week, choose the day or the hour you will give your brain a break.

Slow Offline Entertainment

TikToks are not the only form of dopamine for your brain. They are insanely convenient and stimulating, but they come at a cost. As we saw above, your brain needs a full break, yet even during normal consumption periods it still needs room to analyze what is happening. The magic of the algorithm is that it knows you well and presents you with the most accurate content you are craving. The flip side is that it never ends. It is a constant stream, and your brain cannot process it.

That is why I recommend you embrace slower forms of entertainment. Comedy shows, theater performances, even the movie theater, provided that you follow the rules and leave your phone in the car, are experiences that satisfy the escape mechanism your brain craves, but they do so at a human pace. The immersive experience creates a pocket of time that your brain delights in. Moreover, these options create memories instead of fragments.

Laughter: The Best Medicine

Yesterday, I went to a production of English by Sanaz Toossi. I can, 12 hours or so later, reproduce most of the dialogue and lessons from the show. But if you ask me what I watched three days ago on YouTube and what the point of it was, I cannot recollect. I will eventually forget some of the dialogue and characters from the theater show, but it will take much longer than anything I’ve watched online. The smell of the lady next to me who wore too much Chanel No 5, the sound of the stage shifting between scenes, the collective inhale of the audience during a tense moment, all of it stays with me in a way digital content never will.

Yes, I could watch a comedy special or the same show at home, but we both know it is not the same. There is an energy that only a human gathering can express and our brain knows the difference.

More Human. Less Digital

So now that you know the secret, the truth that your brain needs a break from the web, the imperative rests on you. Will you continue favoring the digital world and its extractive commands? Or will you decide that attending the local bike club, trivia night, or choir practice is what your life actually needs? Will you invite other humans into your home to gather and eat, or decide that isolation and the web are enough for you?

It is a subtle change with massive implications. It is the equivalent of taking your first steps again. It was scary then, dangerous even. A world full of pain, falls, and broken bones. A world that could disappoint you and create heartache. But it was a human world nonetheless, and it is the one your mind is still built for.

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Over the last 2 weeks I’ve been digesting Meta’s internal research. More than 2,000 pages that make one thing impossible to ignore: the people inside these companies know exactly how deeply smartphones and social media are affecting our attention, our mental health, and our kids. And at the same time there is no real plan to change course. Out of everything I am going to share with you today, I want to start with Exhibits 32 and 33.

These small pieces of documentation show us that Meta’s administrative team knows the power of words. They know that a phrase could change the world. First, they acknowledge that they do not want to use the word addiction, even internally. Then, they debate the difference between facilitating addicts or creating them, which makes it clear that they recognize the harms their applications produce in kids, teens, and adults. However, that awareness never becomes action, because doing the right thing for the public would conflict with what their investors expect from them.

Today, I am going to share the most salient quotes and actionable advice to stop playing their games and start living your life.

Stop Using Consumptive Social Media

While I was going through the documentation, I found these gems:

• “According to a survey of 1,500 young adults, Instagram was ranked as the worst social media app (compared to Snap, Twitter, Facebook and Youtube) for mental health and well being, particularly for its impact on anxiety and depression.”

• “[p]eople who are addicted to Facebook are more likely to be lonely, have lower well-being, have difficulties managing their emotions, be preoccupied with Facebook when not on it, and spend more time on and be at greater risk of addiction to other kinds of technology.”

• “people who stopped using Facebook for a week reported lower feelings of depression, anxiety, loneliness, and social comparison.”

That last one is darkly ironic. It’s part of a study called Project Mercury. It showed that the Facebook app was making people’s lives more difficult. Instead of fixing the anxiety‑producing patterns of their software, they shut the study down. The official explanation was that the findings were “biased” because of the existing media narrative around the company. In other words, the results were too uncomfortable to confront, so the research itself became the problem.

Meta’s own research gives us our first actionable step: stop using consumptive social media. Facebook posts, Instagram reels, TikToks, or anything that takes less than a minute to publish into the world is not worth your time. This is not only my assessment, Facebook executives agree with this so much that they avoid using their own app.

They know that the content pushed on the algorithmically curated feed has not been digested, vetted, or meaningfully examined. It is the digital equivalent of shower thoughts. And yes, every once in a while a shower idea becomes something extraordinary, like the original concept for the Post‑it Note. But most of the time, these instant impulses flood our minds, our feeds, and our attention with noise.

At a larger level, we can start advocating for smartphone-free environments for our kids like this town in Ireland. Or maybe it is a suggestion to our local bar/coffee shop to become phone-free. These small cultural shifts matter because they remind us that we still have agency and can choose spaces where presence is the default, not the exception.

Stop Waiting For Them To Do Something

Big tech companies have spent years trying to appear responsive without ever committing to real change. Every so often since 2016, they have offered small gestures like Screen Time or Digital Wellbeing. More recently, Meta introduced “Teen Accounts” as another surface level feature meant to signal concern. But when you look closely, and the exhibits in the research make this easy to see, the pattern never changes. They acknowledge just enough to ease public pressure, then quietly maintain the systems that keep people scrolling.

Their own internal research, marketing strategies, and school focused outreach show they knew their platform designs were driving compulsive use among all users. One internal note reads, “IG is a drug… We’re basically pushers.” Snap acknowledged that “the ones that have the Snapchat addiction have no room for anything else.” And YouTube, despite knowing it was the most widely used platform among U.S. teens, recognized “growing concerns that excessive screen time is stunting physical, emotional, and social development.” They know the harms, but have no incentive to fix it.

That’s where our second actionable step comes into play: it’s time to restrict and leash the gateway to these platforms: the smartphone. If you look at the graph below from chapter 3 in the World Happiness Report 2026, you’ll find out that 38% of people surveyed hoped for smartphones to never have existed. They are not talking about the smartphone as a GPS, music player, or helper of vulnerable users. They are referring to the large screen in our pocket that delivers an endless stream of unfiltered, unexamined, attention‑shredding content.

Therefore, it is time for you to consider a dumbphone, an iPhone restricted via Apple Configurator 2, or an Android nuked by the Android Debug Bridge. Any of these will help you tremendously in the fight against tech dependency.

Stop Letting Tech Design Your Day

They know that their users are dependent. That is why they call us users. They have a product to sell and a business model that rewards dependency, and they understand that we supply the raw materials that fuel their success. But they also know what we value. The Meta documents show that the most meaningful features of any app are the ones that “support learning, skill acquisition, and hobby pursuit.”

In other words, we feel most alive when a platform teaches us something new, helps us build a skill, or introduces us to an idea we did not know existed. And you could argue that some of this is happening with artificial intelligence chatbots. They can explain concepts, help us practice languages, or spark new interests. But even here, the pattern is exploitative. The more we rely on these tools to think, plan, remember, and create, the more we risk losing the very skills that make us capable, confident, and human.

We already made this mistake once. From 2014 to 2020, we appified everything. The promise was convenience, speed, and frictionless living. What we got was depression, anxiety, and a generation of people who feel uneasy the moment they are alone with their own thoughts. Now, in 2026, we are on the verge of doing it again. This time with artificial intelligence. We are allowing it to dictate our research, our music preferences, and our schedules. We are, once again, trusting tech to solve our issues and we’ll be left wanting.

This is where our third action comes into play: return to human‑driven processes. Technology knows that we are lazy and would rather have everything served to us than learn to cook it in the first place. But the joy of learning is what makes us human. Making mistakes, engaging in the practice, creating something from scratch. That is what builds confidence and competence.

So, write down your schedule for the week, pick up a guitar and complete the thousand hours needed to play Hotel California, but most importantly remember that the point of life is not to eliminate effort, but to engage through it.

Conclusion

Meta’s internal research is a trove of revealing documents. Page after page shows a simple truth: the people who built these systems know the harms, understand the consequences, and have no meaningful plan to change. So the work of returning to a simple life falls back to us.

The three actions I shared are not rules. They are reminders. Because in the end, the real question is not whether technology will change. It is whether you will choose a life vivid enough that no machine can live it for you.

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As dumbphones continue to gain popularity, skepticism about their usefulness grows. Many people are asking: Are they actually useful in reducing screen time? Are dumb phones a sustainable choice for most people? Do they work or are they just a trend that will fade quickly?

Luckily, we no longer have to rely on anecdotes. A recent Stanford University study provides some clarity into the matter. Today, we’re breaking down three evidence-based reasons why minimal devices successfully reshape our behavior. Moreover, I’m sharing the LIGHT Framework, a practical strategy born from this research that allows you to reclaim your attention and achieve these same results, whether you decide to switch your hardware or not.

The LIGHT Framework

Reason 1: Limitation by Design

The study utilized the Light Phone II, a device I have used for five years, as the dumbphone of choice. Because it lacks social media feeds and infinite scrolling, it is physically incapable of sucking you into a “doom scroll.”

The data collected by researchers showed that both “high interest” users and those randomly assigned a dumbphone experienced a sharp and immediate decline in social media checks. In other words, the dumbphone did exactly what it was built to do. It is a clear reminder that technology does not have to be designed to be addictive. It can be designed to support our well-being instead.

This first finding from the study delivers a timeless lesson: when you choose a device that is designed to do less, your behavior naturally follows. It is the reason I am such a big advocate of small screens, e‑ink devices, and other friction-based technologies.

Now, there is a bit of nuance here. The change in the study was not perfectly linear. You will not go from 100 percent usage to zero overnight. The study shows a big initial drop followed by a slight rebound in all groups, which is completely normal. People might still need to check WhatsApp or Instagram occasionally, but because those apps are not sitting in their pocket all day, they will not be engaging with them the way they did before.

In sum, our first reason why dumbphones work is simple: they change the environment from constant stimulation to reduced overload. And when you change the environment, you change the behavior.

Reason 2: Reclaiming Agency & Skill Adaptation

This is my favorite part of the research because the authors did not only measure minutes on a screen. They also measured how people felt about their phones. Participants who chose to be in the experiment reported greater perceived control and less dependency.

This lines up with my own experience. After using dumb phones for the past six years, I have always felt more empowered because they force me to reclaim parts of my brain that I had offloaded to smartphones. I still remember the first time I drove without GPS with a dumbphone only. It was a little scary, but it was also refreshing to explore the city without every detail handed to me.

Researchers found that switching to a basic phone produced a significant drop in reported phone dependency. The high‑interest volunteers, meaning the people who wanted the change, experienced an even larger immediate decline. People who were assigned the device sometimes felt a short‑term spike in dependency before adapting.

That adaptation is a crucial finding. It shows that people eventually learn to live without the “needed” convenience. Yes, there is some initial discomfort, and that can be a barrier. I hear it almost every day in emails and messages from people who say, “I want a dumb phone, but I still want Spotify and WhatsApp and GPS.” What I tell most of them is simple: over time, you will not miss those things.

Navigating without GPS will feel awkward at first, but then you will remember the routes and feel more confident. Waiting at the checkout counter without scrolling will feel boring in the beginning, but eventually you will bring a notebook, make a few notes, or simply observe the world around you. Rebuilding your music library instead of relying on a streaming service takes effort, but you will savor it more and use it more deliberately than whatever algorithm is feeding you songs today.

The summary for reason number two is this: once you switch to a dumb phone, you begin to regain skills and abilities that were lost to convenience. With time, you adapt, and you stop missing the smartphone altogether.

Reason 3: Less FOMO, Less Comparison, Same Social Life

Observations from the study tell us that dumbphones reduce FOMO and social comparison. This part stood out to me because many people assume that switching to a dumb phone will disconnect them from their social world. However, the volunteers in the study actually reported less fear of missing out and higher life satisfaction during the period they used the dumbphone.

It’s as if we forgot that when feeds and notifications are removed, you also remove the constant stream of social signals that invite comparison. For many people who choose a minimal device, this translates into noticeably less low‑grade social anxiety.

I do want to offer a reality check though. A dumbphone is not a magic pill. The study found no reliable changes in moment‑to‑moment positive mood, alertness, sense of connection, or depression for the average user. In other words, you should not expect instant joy just because you switched to a smaller screen. Your days will not suddenly become perfect, and your breakup will not feel easier simply because you changed devices. Mood and emotion are complex parts of the human experience, and a phone alone cannot transform them.

What you can expect is less background stress, fewer social triggers, and fewer overwhelming thoughts coming at you throughout the day.

There is also a reassuring part to this. Your friendships are not going to disappear. Many people worry that without WhatsApp or Facebook, their friends will stop contacting them. But the study found no drop in perceived closeness to friends during the trial. A minimal device can coexist with your meaningful relationships, your partner, your family, and your social circle. And honestly, if switching to a dumb phone is the reason someone stops talking to you, it may be worth rethinking that friendship.

The LIGHT Framework

Before we move into the framework, I want to remind you of something important found in the study: motivation is the multiplier. This is the central theme of the research. The device reliably reduces usage, but only people who genuinely wanted the change, meaning those with intrinsic motivation to embrace a simpler life, translated that reduced usage into measurable improvements in well‑being.

People who were simply assigned the device also reduced their usage, sometimes quite dramatically, but they did not show the same psychological benefits. So if you are thinking about switching to the offline life, make sure you check your motivations.

Now let us take all of these findings and turn them into a practical framework I called Light in the vein of Going Light :)

• L is for Limit by design.
  When you remove distractions and time‑sucking apps from your phone and laptop, you create more mental freedom. I recommend using dedicated devices during your experiment. Use a music player, a GPS device for directions, and your phone only for calls and texts. Apps are designed to monopolize your attention, so when you remove them from your environment, you naturally experience fewer distractions.

• I is for Intend clearly.
  You need a reason to move offline. Whether it is stress reduction, focus time, or family time, write your reason down and place it somewhere visible. Put it on your fridge, on your counter, or as a sticky note on your monitor. Your reason needs to be a constant reminder of why you are doing this. Smartphones and laptops will try to pull you back in. Seeing your intention helps you recommit to the simple life.

• G is for Give it at least two weeks.
  You need a predetermined amount of time for this experiment. At least two weeks, and ideally a full month. This gives you enough time to see the progress and the focus you regain. You can time this with a vacation or a quieter period in your schedule so it does not disrupt your work. But choose a time frame and stick to it.

• H is for Habits and replacements.
  The offline life can feel tough at times, so you need alternatives ready. A short walk, a notebook, exercise, breathing work, going to the gym, or any activity you enjoy. You will get bored. You will experience growing pains. Your mind will stretch, and that is when you will be tempted to fall back into old loops. Write down activities you enjoy. These will protect you when the urge to go back online appears.

• T is for Track outcomes.
  Make a simple table or graph that allows you to rate stress, life satisfaction, FOMO, and perceived control from day zero to day fourteen, or day thirty if you choose a full month. Plot the scores and average them at the end. This data is extremely important during your reflection because it shows what actually changed, what improved, and what needs adjustment.

Conclusion

As dumbphones continue to gain attention, it is natural to question whether they truly help or whether they are simply another passing trend. Thanks to this Stanford study, we now have something more reliable than anecdotes. We have evidence. Evidence that minimal devices reduce digital overload by design, help us reclaim agency and lost skills, and ease the constant comparison cycle that fuels FOMO. And importantly, evidence that these benefits are strongest when the choice to simplify comes from within.

I hope for more studies and more ideas to spring forth that will help people de-tangle from our hyper-connected world. I wish the same for you. Until next time!

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In 1984, Orwell warned us that the system would know everything about us. He envisioned that Big Brother would possess every bit of relevant information by coercing, extracting, and twisting our wills against us. He even showed us a glimpse of what resistance looks like under a tyrannical power that watches every move. What Orwell couldn’t conceive is that we would hand that information willingly for the sake of not having to purchase music, learn how to cook, or go through the “trouble” of writing our own thoughts.

That’s why one of the most powerful tools in the fight against technology monopolizing your data, time, and attention is contentment. The word is often mistaken for stasis or even for conformism, as if being content means settling, shrinking, or giving up ambition. However, contentment is our secret weapon. It protects us from societies, corporations, platforms, and governments that want us conditioned to believe that a successful life is only possible if we are constantly striving for more.

Luckily, we have a rich tradition of religious, cultural, and philosophical texts that have long emphasized accepting what is and letting go of what could be. It is a simple idea, but one worth revisiting today. To explore it, I will turn to the movie Perfect Days (minor spoilers coming, so if you want to watch it first and return later, that is completely fine) along with some modern practices that can help you reclaim your sense of self.

Reducing Overload (Biological Contentment)

Contentment begins in the body. Our human operating system and the limbs accompanying it were not designed for hours upon hours of rapid‑fire videos, prolonged screen exposure, and constant pings that replace reflection with information. In fact, as Polyvagal theory explains, all of these inputs work against our ability to be relaxed. They keep the nervous system in a state of sympathetic activation, the mode we often associate with vigilance or urgency. In that state, contentment is nearly impossible because the body is signaling “do more” long before the mind has a chance to intervene.

Thus, when I was watching the film, something that stood out to me was Hirayama’s few words each day. As someone raised on the blockbuster, popcorn‑ready movies of the 21st century, the lack of dialogue felt almost disorienting at first. But as the film unfolded, I realized that my mind had more than enough time to process and analyze the intention of each scene. Without the usual barrage of noise and rapid‑fire cuts, I could actually digest the director’s intentions.

Technology companies are perhaps the biggest culprits behind the overload we experience today. They slowly moved us1 from an era of single‑purpose devices to a phone that can hold every app imaginable. When each object served one task, our bodies tracked the action-reaction process. As these functions collapsed into a single device, we began to accept overload as the default, and anything less started to feel like regression. I see this most clearly in the “allergic” reaction I get when I pull my Light Phone from my pocket. People often tell me they wish they could use a dumbphone too, but then immediately list the services they believe they cannot live without: maps, Spotify, Slack, email, or whatever app has fused itself to their sense of daily functioning. My reflection on this new normal is that we have grown so accustomed to an overloaded life that anything challenging the status quo is dismissed as outdated or backwards.

But when I watched Hirayama drive his car and slide cassette tapes into the player, I did not see someone stuck in the past, missing the AI‑curated playlists of Spotify. I did not contemplate a character craving the latest hits delivered in an algorithmic stream. I saw someone who enjoyed the music he chose, someone whose body was at ease, someone whose nervous system was content.

The body, then, is where we start our resistance against big tech. We choose to leave our phones outside the bedroom to get adequate sleep. We turn off the device on the weekends to reconnect with our thoughts and families. We go on walks where the air is fresh, our lungs expand, and the absence of a cellular signal gives our sympathetic system space to calm down. Yet, we don’t stop there, for contentment must be found beyond the body.

Reframing Emotion (Emotional Contentment)

Closer to the heart of contentment, Aaron Beck’s Cognitive Behavioral Theory explains that emotions are shaped not by the events occurring to us but by the thoughts we attach to them. I once asked a friend if he regretted standing in line overnight for the iPhone 6 release. He told me he did not. The rush he felt from the anticipation and the thrill of getting the newly designed phone was enough to make the memory feel positive. What he did not acknowledge was that this rush was the kind of emotional surge capitalism depends on. Our most popular economic system teaches us that emotional excitement that comes from buying something is the closest thing to happiness. But excitement is not contentment. It is a spike, a jolt, a momentary high that quickly fades and leaves us searching for the next hit.

This is where Perfect Days re‑enters our picture. Hirayama’s routines are simple. Nothing too exciting, our digital overlords would say, about a janitor waking up early, going to work, sitting down for dinner, and returning home to sleep. Yet the best part of his routine is that it is free from the cognitive distortions of modern consumer culture. Distortions that we recently learned have caused real harm, enough to result in a three‑million‑dollar payout. Hirayama is so free from these pressures that he casually rejects Takashi’s urge to sell one of his cassettes for $200. In another moment, his niece asks him whether a particular artist is on Spotify, and he responds with a sincere, almost puzzled, “Where is that?” These scenes reveal a mind unhooked from the assumptions consumer culture trains into us, such as the belief that value comes from novelty or that worth is tied to what we can acquire. Beck would call this a shift toward more balanced thinking or a return to emotional steadiness.

Emotional contentment is key in our struggle against big tech. Not only because it makes us more resilient in times of adversity, but because our economic system pushes us in the opposite direction. Capitalism rewards emotional volatility because volatility drives consumption. The shopaholic is not an anomaly; they are the ideal customer. A customer shaped by the data we have willingly gifted to these companies. From time to time, I peruse Mozilla’s Privacy Not Included website to remind myself which services and companies are thriving on data collection and emotional dysregulation. It is a sobering catalog of how much of the tech world is built on products with no depth, no staying power, and no connection to our actual needs. Instead, they are engineered to extract from our lives and make us emotionally dependent to the point of exploitation.

That is why we say no to yearly smartphone upgrades that give us five minutes of novelty. Or why we reject social media services that thrive on showing us a picture‑perfect life. It is why we return to the local coffee shop or bar and talk to the barista and the stranger next to us. It is the reason we value human interaction instead of machine attachment. And as we approach our final contentment area, existential contentment, we are reminded that our value is not determined by the things we own, but by who we are.

Finding Meaning (Existential Contentment)

Once you have taken care of your biological (no overload), cognitive (more reflection), and emotional (no need to compare) contentment, purpose almost falls on your lap. Aristotle called this eudaimonia, a form of flourishing that can only be experienced when you are in alignment with yourself. It is a state of being that delivers coherence, intention, and peace. I must be honest with you. I am still trying to find it. However, I have come closer than ever in my life.

Modern culture made this almost impossible for me a few years ago. As I fell into the trap of entertaining myself to oblivion, I almost gave up on trying to find purpose. Before recording one of my first videos for the YouTube channel, I still recall saying to myself: “It doesn’t matter. You’ll be back to the smartphone in not time.” And the data was against me. During college, I bought into the “latest and greatest” every single year. People knew me as someone who cycled through smartphones like newborn children through clothes. It was rational to accept the possibility of failure.

However, as the benefits of an offline life (emotional steadiness, financial freedom, cognitive space) started to pile up, I started to find joy again. I started to notice, like Hirayama, that life was imperfect, hurtful, and beautiful all at the same time. In the film’s final shot, as Hirayama sits in vulnerable stillness, I found myself identifying with him. He is trying to make sense of his world of “perfect” solitude while allowing himself to feel human connection. A week unlike any other that reminded him that while being alone is a possibility, it is not the only one.

His lesson is ours as well. While societies, companies, and even friends may choose to move in the direction of deeper tech integration, that is not the only option. We can live in a tech‑driven world and still accept offline as our default. We will make trade‑offs, but they are the kind that give us the opportunity to become the fullest version of ourselves. We realize that a life well lived is not found in spectacle or in racking up popularity points. It is found when we are content with who we are.

Conclusion

And that is the lesson that contentment delivers to us today. A truth that technology will try to obfuscate, but can’t. A truth that lives within us, but until it is recognized it cannot flourish. Thus, my hope is that you come to that recognition soon. That you come to accept that you do not need more to live a good life. You may simply need to acknowledge and appreciate that what you already have is enough.

Try It Out:
If you’re on iOS and looking for a free way to control your phone habits, check out Foqos. Android user? Look into Switchly.

If you want to go a level deep, try Apple Configurator for iOS or ADB App Control for Android to permanently remove distractions from your smartphone.

Finally, you could get a dumbphone if those methods are insufficient. But try finding a second hand one or a free one from a friend first :)

When my parents refused to purchase a calculator for my Algebra 1 class in seventh grade, I was livid with them. I argued my case, insisting that the lack of this “most important tool” would severely handicap me in the class and make my life harder than it already was (life in high school being “hard”; oh, how naive I was). I explained that a calculator was an essential tool, something every other kid would have, something I needed to keep up.

What I didn’t realize back then is that my parents didn’t want me to outsource my thinking to a machine. They wanted me to learn about exponents, functions, and graphs without having the handy TI‑841 do the work for me. They were more invested in my development than my convenience. And that’s something I am infinitely indebted to them for.

Big Calculator: The TI Monopoly

During my final exam that semester, Mrs. Rodriguez dropped a massive switch: no calculators allowed. Most of my friends who had leaned on their TI‑84s all year could still do the work, but only at a snail’s pace. Meanwhile, the section of our class that never had calculators, whether because their parents refused or because money was tight, finished quickly and ended up with extra time to play outside.

In today’s newsletter, we’re going to explore the central tension modern parents face: choosing priorities that protect childhood rather than undermine it. By now, it’s clear that we’re no longer talking about simple devices meant to help kids with their math homework. We’re talking about an industry built to pull kids online, keep them there, and shape their attention in ways that benefit the platform, not the child.

Priority #1: Delay Screens

Having talked with countless parents about their biggest challenges of the past decade, one issue consistently rises to the top: screens. Screen time is not only a cultural malaise. Research has shown that it damages motor development, social interaction, and cognitive development in the K-12 population.

Therefore, it is essential for parents to delay screens for kids as late as possible. This, in turn, doesn’t mean that your kid needs to be a social outcast. You can consider getting them a simple phone that doesn’t monopolize their attention and time. Studies and school experiments have showcased that smartphone free environments yield a complete transformation for kids and their learning outcomes.

The Wait until 8th, Smartphone Free Childhood2, and Screen Strong movements are some of my favorite resources for parents. They have advocacy guides, parental discussions, and technology recommendations that help families build a rich, offline childhood.

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Priority #2: Skill Building and Nature

Once you have committed to a screen‑free experience for your child, the real work begins. Finding activities that enrich their sense of discovery and still fit into a hectic weekly schedule is not an easy task. This is where the woods, the park, and the lake offer a magnificent opportunity for you and your child to enjoy free or low‑cost activities that expand their skills.

I know that being a working parent already leaves you exhausted by the weekend, but the good news is that you don’t have to come up with all the ideas yourself. Local libraries3, state parks, museums, and maker-spaces, all offer enrichment programs that take the planning off your plate and give your child meaningful, screen‑free experiences. The one thing they cannot do for you is sign you up, so you have to commit ahead of time and prioritize your child’s learning away from the laptop.

This priority, I believe, is going to be the differentiating factor for success in the marketplace in the future. We’ve already seen what happens when kids are encouraged to be laser‑focused on a single skill, like coding, at the expense of everything else. They may excel in one narrow area, but they often struggle with the broader curiosity, creativity, and adaptability that actually drive long‑term success.

The Coding Hype Fizzled. Kids Paid.

Priority #3: Build an Offline Home Culture

For parents of tweens or emerging adults, some of the above tools may not seem as helpful anymore. However, this priority is one that benefits children of all ages. Building an offline culture starts by setting aside intentional time blocks during the week where technology is removed from the central stage. This practice yields tremendous benefits for the whole family.

We used to have a built‑in ritual for this: the family dinner. And while some dinners may have been awkward, like the night I confidently told my parents I was doing fine in school even though a letter about me failing civics had already arrived, the simple act of sitting down to eat together produces remarkable results. It creates space for conversation, connection, and contemplation. Moreover, you don’t have to only have a time to eat together.

Teaching your kids that there is a time to shut down devices and do offline activities is a skill they will carry with them for life, especially as technology becomes more pervasive and more demanding of their attention. And while they may complain about it now, they will thank you in the future. Creating offline blocks for painting, reading, or building a puzzle will not only teach them that their brains need a break, but will give them memories and conversations to pass onto future generations long after we are gone.

A bonus tool for creating an offline culture is to set up an offline room. If your home has the space, designate one area where no devices are allowed. This small boundary teaches your kids (and yourself) that we must cultivate spaces where our minds can thrive unpolluted from the craziness of the online world.

Conclusion

Childhood has always required protection. However, the threats have changed. My parents worried that a calculator would make me think less. Today’s parents face tools that do far more than solve problems for kids. They shape attention, habits, and even identity. When you delay screens, invest in skill building, and create an offline home culture, you give your children something far more valuable than convenience. You give them the capacity to think, to explore, and to grow without outsourcing their minds to a machine.

None of this is easy, especially in a world that pushes families toward constant “connection” and distraction. But the effort is worth it. By choosing tools that support childhood instead of competing against it, you are gifting your kids the foundation to thrive in a world that desperately needs more thoughtful, curious, and fully present adults.

Introduction

Have you ever seen one of these? It’s become the easiest cash grab in the history of capitalism. Companies have devised an infinite loop of digital consumption. An interminable cycle that ends up, as we will see today, making us stressed, sick, and susceptible to more of their tricks. I started researching digital clutter a few days ago per Marvin’s request, and what I found went far beyond the hunch I already had. It’s a bleak situation.

As I dug into the source material, it became clear that companies have pushed us to consume more, create less, and hand over our digital agency. Today, we will look at how the problem started, what you can do about it, and how to stay so digitally decluttered that Marie Kondo would be proud.

The Main Trick And Its Damage

You may have noticed that your phone is constantly nagging you to buy extra storage. Some of it is due to real consumption. You load music, apps, or videos, and of course that takes up room. Yet, a surprising amount of your “full storage” isn’t of your doing at all. It’s what companies label as “system data,” a supposed mix of cached files, duplicated photos, app leftovers, and other digital debris they never bother to clean up because the mess benefits them. After all, the fuller your phone or laptop feels, and the more persistent the prompts become, the more likely you are to pay.

The deceitful part of this whole equation is that companies don’t tell you what that system data is. Apple’s Mackintosh (surprise!) devices are some of the most susceptible to this practice. iPhones also have been found to continually increase their need for storage as a result of AI integration into the operating system. Take a look at this poor user’s storage snapshot:

Companies have little incentive to fix this issue. It is more profitable to build data centers and sell more storage than to design systems that manage information efficiently. Unfortunately for us, these “hoarding centers” have been linked to a series of detrimental outcomes to public health. The Environmental Health Project has documented the impacts of data centers, including air pollution, water depletion, and noise exposure, all of which disproportionately affect nearby communities. The digital clutter on your phone is not an accident, but a business model.

Through expansionist visions of a digitally connected future, companies are now poised to make a racket via these server warehouses. A 2025 report by the International Energy Agency noted that global data center demand is rising sharply, driven by the rapid expansion of cloud storage and the training of large language models. In the report, Executive Director Fatih Birol notes that global electricity demand from data centers is set to more than double over the next five years, reaching levels comparable to the entire electricity consumption of Japan by 2030.

Yet this story is not only about what companies are doing to profit from us and damage the planet. There is a personal toll to the digital clutter on your device. That is where we turn next.

What Digital Clutter Does To Our Brains

Digital clutter, harmless at first glance, is a leading cause of negative outcomes to our cognitive processes. In my last newsletter, I detailed how technostress is depleting our emotional resources, reducing our working memory, and increasing the danger hormones in our system. Now, it is clear to me that one of the main culprits of this technostress is digital clutter. The research shows that digital clutter mimics the same patterns that scientists uncovered about physical clutter long ago. Digital clutter, like visual clutter, competes for our brain’s neural capacity. Moreover, it overloads the brain’s attentional resources and makes it harder for everyday tasks to be completed. And while physical clutter is easy to spot, digital messes are harder to get rid of as they don’t seem to pose the same threat.

However, this persistent low-grade overload has measurable physiological effects. In a study evaluating digital hoarding on students, researchers noticed that when our brains are forced to juggle too many stimuli, the prefrontal cortex becomes less efficient. This, in turn, leads to increased cortisol levels, reduced working memory capacity, and possible burnout. It is the scientific explanation to your friend’s irritability after seeing, yet again, his 42,354 unread emails on the home screen.

Another way that digital clutter disrupts our minds is our ability to form coherent memories. Studies from 2016 and 2019 found that fragmented digital environments impair the brain’s ability to encode information into long‑term memory. Participants exposed to constant task‑switching or heavy reliance on search engines remembered significantly less than those in low‑interruption conditions. This is worrisome because it suggests our experiences may become less vivid and our long‑term memories less durable. As one researcher noted, “Whereas before we might have tried to recall something… now we don't bother. As more information becomes available via smartphones… we become progressively more reliant on it in our daily lives.” While this may not be an issue for children or adolescents1, it could become a severe predictor of dementia for older populations.

The final frontier for today’s exploration is how digital clutter fuels anxiety by creating a constant sense of unfinished business. Psychologists call this the “Zeigarnik effect,” the brain’s tendency to fixate on incomplete tasks. Every unfinished project becomes a tiny open loop the mind feels obligated to resolve, and the more loops you accumulate, the more stress you carry. A simple example to consider is all those accidental screenshots we never delete. The more screenshots you don’t clear from your album, the more your brain fixates on them. Over time, tension builds up in your system as a result of incessant screenshots in said album.

Confession time: I checked my screenshots album on my desktop. I had 254 items in there 😳.

Cal Newport, author of Deep Work, tackles these issues with two simple practices: the capture method and the shutdown ritual. Following his advice will help your brain gain relief by jotting down tasks, eliminating unnecessary information, and “closing shop” for the day. If you continue engaging in information overload, you may reach a breaking point sooner than later.

What Do We Do Then?

At this point, you and I should be worried on three levels (personal, community, and societal), and align our practices to tackle these issues progressively.

First, at the personal level, an easy thing to do is to participate in Digital Cleanup Day. During this annual event, people are encouraged to delete unused apps, clear screenshots, archive old messages, cancel subscriptions, and turn off nonessential notifications. If you think one day is not enough to get rid of all the digital clutter, you are probably right. However, you have to start somewhere. Participate in digital cleanup day and set up more consistent reminders, monthly or quarterly, to tidy up your files.

Another powerful individual practice is taking a weekly break from your phone. Whether you turn it off entirely or switch to a dumbphone for a day, giving yourself a 24‑hour pause interrupts the consumptive habit.

At the local community level, the most noticeable change we can make is adopting a shared shutdown ritual. Our brains need a break from the constant stream of information. Creating uninterrupted time to process the day, read paper books, talk with neighbors, or plan for tomorrow gives everyone a chance to reset. When members of a community practice digital boundaries together, the habit becomes easier, more natural, and far more sustainable. Try getting your friends, neighbors, and family involved in a shared shutdown ritual (for example no digital phones after 6 p.m., shared family dinners, Friday night potlucks, etc.) and notice how quickly the quality of your conversations and relationships improves.

Finally, at the societal level, we must demand better design and better incentives. As we saw above, digital clutter is not so much a personal failing, but a business model. We need stronger standards for data transparency, limits on manipulative design, and public pressure for systems that prioritize user well‑being. While I know that some of these are effectuated at the federal level here in the United States, your local community may be the initial battleground for digital clutter with the rise of data centers. You can organize conversations, get to know your local city officials, and help shape the immediate future of your town. In the battle against big tech, we are not helpless, we get to decide.

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Introduction

Recently, I received a message from a reader in Kharkiv. Kharkiv is a city close to the Russia–Ukraine border, a place that has lived under duress for the past four years because of the war. In his note, Igor told me that in Kharkiv the internet is not optional. As he put it, “We keep our phones close at all times… when a missile is launched, we have 30 to 40 seconds to reach shelter. The habit of reaching for a screen is wired into survival here, not just distraction.”

And yet, even knowing that, he chose to step away from the deluge of information that social media provides. He did it because he felt he needed to reconnect with a version of himself that had been lost long before the war began. A version more rooted in his own life, not the lives of strangers online. In his message, he wrote a line that stays with me: “If it is possible here, I believe it is possible almost anywhere.”

I share this story because Igor is living through a situation most of us would never choose, even in our worst nightmares. And yet, here in places of relative peace, we are still at war. Not with missiles or sirens, but with something quieter and pervasive. Our smartphones, laptops, and smartwatches are waging a battle against our brains. A battle for our attention, our clarity, and the space where our lives actually unfold. Unfortunately, most people don’t treat it as the war that it is. But the research we’ll explore today makes one thing unmistakably clear: if we want a future where our minds remain our own, we will have to fight for it.

Screens Keep Us Wired for Danger

The research is clear on the first battleground against our brains: the stress‑response system. Our minds, once shaped to protect us from physical harm, are now adapting to a new kind of danger that arrives through online media. I believe this shift began around 2014, when larger and brighter screens were pushed into our pockets, but only in the past few years has the science caught up to what many people sensed long before the data arrived.

And what the data reveals is that constant connectivity keeps the nervous system in a quiet state of alarm. It creates a background noise the brain can’t fully shut out.1 Researchers now argue that with the rise of artificial intelligence, this techno‑stress has taken on a new dimension, shaped by the unpredictability and rapid evolution of these systems. Meanwhile, a 2020 study in the American Economic Review found that deactivating Facebook for just four weeks led to measurable improvements in happiness, life satisfaction, depression, and anxiety. When people stepped away from the platform, their stress systems finally began to settle.

I don’t think this is random. These patterns show up across nearly every population researchers have examined: adolescents, college students, working age adults, retired individuals, and even children. Across age groups and life stages, the findings converge on a single point: our biology is being asked to manage a volume and intensity of digital input it was never designed to handle.

Therefore, in order to fight in this first arena, we have to understand how our brain actually operates. In Your Stone Age Brain in a Screen Age, neurologist Richard Cytowic argues that “silence is an essential nutrient,” a biological requirement the brain depends on to reset its threat‑detection systems and recover from constant stimulation. So in the coming week, treat silence as something your mind genuinely needs. Step outside without your phone, leave the earbuds behind, and give your brain a few uninterrupted minutes to settle back into its natural rhythm.

Screens Deplete Our Working Memory

If the effects of stress had you worried, I cannot emphasize enough that the second battle is even more important to pay attention to. Think of it as your own battle of Thermopylae2. In the ancient battle, the Greeks didn’t lose because they lacked courage; they lost because the space they were defending was simply too small to hold back the onslaught. Working memory functions the same way. It is the brain’s mental workspace, the limited cognitive pass where we hold information long enough to reason, plan, reflect, or make sense of our lives. And modern technology is flooding that narrow space with more demands than it can possibly withstand.

In 2005, psychologist Glenn Wilson was commissioned by Hewlett Packard to study the cognitive effects of constant digital interruption. His findings showed that the presence of an unread message reduced working memory capacity by the equivalent of ten IQ points. Research that followed only strengthened the case. Studies from Stanford, the University of Chicago, and the University of Texas all confirmed the same pattern. Even a silent phone resting on a desk quietly erodes the mind’s ability to think. The device does not need to ring, buzz, or light up. Its simple presence is enough to shrink the mental space where thought takes shape.

This battle for working memory is not abstract. It shows up in the smallest moments of your day: the half‑formed thought that evaporates when a notification appears, the idea you meant to write down but can’t quite recall, the conversation you struggle to stay present for because part of your mind is bracing for the next digital tap on the shoulder. Our friend Igor decided to reclaim some of that space for himself. When he deleted social media in the middle of a war zone, calm wasn’t his priority. Calm, after all, is almost unimaginable in such conditions. What he was reclaiming was the inner workspace that let him think his own thoughts again. The war demanded his attention. The phone demanded it too. What he recovered was not just silence, but the capacity to be himself again.

Working memory is our modern Thermopylae. It is a narrow, easily overrun pass that determines whether we can still inhabit our own minds. When that space collapses, everything downstream collapses with it: focus, reflection, creativity, even the sense of who we are. As our world continues to overwhelm that area with endless digital flows, the task before us is to reclaim sovereignty over our own mental space. When you plan for the week ahead, choose to do a few things via analog methods instead of defaulting to a screen. Give your mind room to breathe, and defend the pass that makes clear thinking possible.

Screens Deregulate Our Emotional Capacity

Have you been feeling on edge lately? You’re not alone. Emotional dysregulation has become one of the most searched psychological concepts of the past decade3, reflecting a growing public awareness that something in our emotional lives is slipping out of balance. And this shouldn’t surprise us. Once stress hijacks the nervous system and working memory narrows to the size of a needle, the next thing to falter is your ability to stay steady with yourself and others.

Researchers have shown that when cognitive load increases, emotional cues hit harder and emotional regulation weakens, a pattern documented across recent reviews of emotional dysregulation published between 2024 and 2025. This effect is especially pronounced in children. One recent study examining screen exposure and socioemotional development concluded that “the more children engaged with electronic screens, the more likely they were to develop socioemotional problems.” And these problems do not remain confined to childhood. They follow people into adulthood, into work, relationships, and the quiet moments at dinner or the cinema. In other words, smartphones are everywhere and our constant connectivity is now collecting payment not only in our time, attention, or money, but also in our emotional capacity.

As we become aware of the emotional cost our smartphones can impose, the most practical way to rebuild steadiness is to rebuild connection. Robert D. Putnam and Shaylyn Romney Garrett argue in The Upswing that societies grow healthier when they move from the “I” to the “we.” That same shift strengthens individuals. Emotional regulation improves when we participate in shared rhythms, engage in mutual support, and place ourselves inside relationships that steady us. This month, try to find a group of people gathering offline and begin forming the kind of bond that outlasts anything a digital interaction can offer.

Conclusion

The three arenas we have explored show how deeply digital life shapes the mind. Constant stimulation keeps the stress system activated, shrinking the space the brain needs to recover. Continuous interruption crowds the working memory that allows us to think clearly. And the emotional strain of nonstop input weakens our ability to stay steady with ourselves and others. These patterns are not signs of personal weakness. They are the natural result of living in an environment that overwhelms the brain’s most basic systems.

The encouraging news is that these systems can recover. Stress eases when we reintroduce quiet. Working memory strengthens when we protect uninterrupted thought. Emotional steadiness grows when we root ourselves in real community. It requires a lifestyle shift, but it’s one that produces more positive outcomes than most people expect. I hope you choose to begin that shift and discover how much strength returns when you give your mind the conditions it needs to function as it was meant to.

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Look at the image below. Notice how after 2020 when people were thrust into online, the graph takes a massive turn: